The death-with-dignity movement says it's about compassion and autonomy.
Tell that to the 97-year-old woman who was suffocated to death in her Palm Beach home the day after Christmas.
And a Florida woman is facing murder charges for taking matters into her own hands after a doctor refused to help end her mother's life.
Autopsy Reveals Brutal Reality Behind "Death With Dignity" Request
Deputies found 97-year-old Patricia Blake dead in her bed on December 26, lying on her back with sheets pulled up to cover her body.¹
Her daughter Martha Jo Blake, 66, told investigators she'd last seen her mother alive around 10 p.m. on Christmas night.
That story fell apart the moment the medical examiner started the autopsy.
Patricia Blake's skin had turned a purplish color, especially around her nose — consistent with something being placed over her face before death.²
The medical examiner found eye hemorrhaging consistent with suffocation, internal bleeding in the neck, and a fresh fracture to a neck vertebra.³
Deputies reviewing body camera footage from the scene noticed something they'd missed initially: a quarter-sized red mark on the side of Patricia Blake's neck.
That's when Martha Jo Blake stopped lying about what really happened.
Daughter Admits She Killed Mother After Maine Doctor Refused Assisted Suicide Request
Martha Jo Blake had been her mother's primary caregiver for five years.
About 18 months before the killing, they'd approached Patricia Blake's doctor in Maine about "death with dignity" — the euphemism activists use for physician-assisted suicide.⁴
The doctor refused.
Maine law requires a terminal illness with a six-month prognosis for assisted suicide.⁵
Patricia Blake suffered from Parkinson's disease and a thyroid disorder — debilitating conditions, but not technically terminal.
So the mother and daughter started brainstorming other ways to end Patricia Blake's life.
They discussed suicide by pills, but Martha Jo Blake told investigators they "didn't have anything on hand that was actually lethal."⁶
That's when Martha Jo Blake apparently decided to take the situation into her own hands.
During the search of their home, deputies found a pair of white calf-length socks in a shopping bag inside a garbage bag on the front porch.⁷
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The socks were seized as evidence — possibly the murder weapon used to suffocate the elderly woman.
The Real Face of "Compassionate" Assisted Suicide
Activists pushing "death with dignity" laws love to paint a picture of peaceful, autonomous choices made by terminally ill patients with doctors providing gentle assistance.
Here's what it actually looks like when those laws don't go far enough for true believers: a 66-year-old woman strangling her 97-year-old mother to death in her bed and dumping the murder weapon in the trash.
Martha Jo Blake is now facing first-degree premeditated murder charges in Florida, which carry a potential death penalty or life in prison.⁸
Florida has repeatedly rejected death-with-dignity legislation — the most recent attempt died in committee in 2025 when lawmakers wouldn't even give it a hearing.⁹
The state's assisted suicide ban remains on the books as Florida Statute 782.08, making it a second-degree felony to deliberately assist someone in committing suicide.¹⁰
But advocates won't give up.
Death-with-dignity activists have been pushing legislation in Florida since 2020, modeling their proposals on Oregon's law from 1997.¹¹
They claim strict safeguards prevent abuse.
They insist no one gets pressured into ending their life.
And they say it's all about giving terminally ill patients autonomy over their final days.
Patricia Blake wasn't terminally ill according to medical standards, so the system said no.
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Her daughter killed her anyway — then told police her mother had been begging to die for years and they'd exhausted all the "legal" options.
That's the slippery slope opponents warned about.
Once you normalize the idea that some lives aren't worth living, once you train people that ending a suffering person's life is an act of mercy rather than murder, you get exactly this: families taking matters into their own hands when doctors won't cooperate.
The American Medical Association still opposes physician-assisted suicide, calling it "fundamentally incompatible with the physician's role as healer."¹²
Religious groups warn about coercion of vulnerable populations — the elderly, the disabled, people whose care has become inconvenient or expensive.
Even disability rights advocates push back against these laws, worried that some people with disabilities could be pressured to request assisted suicide.¹³
Martha Jo Blake is sitting in Palm Beach County Jail without bond, waiting for her pretrial detention hearing.
Her mother is dead.
And death-with-dignity activists are already using cases like this to argue Florida needs to pass assisted suicide laws — claiming that if only the doctor had been allowed to help, this "tragedy" wouldn't have happened.
That's not how this works.
You don't legalize killing because people might kill illegally if you don't let them do it legally.
Patricia Blake sold her condo to her daughter in 2022 — three years before Martha Jo Blake suffocated her to death.¹⁴
Neighbors in their quiet 55-and-older community said they couldn't imagine why this happened, that Martha Jo Blake seemed devoted to caring for her mother.¹⁵
One resident took comfort knowing it wasn't an outside perpetrator, that his own safety wasn't threatened.
That's the sickest part of all.
We've gotten so comfortable with the idea that certain lives — old lives, sick lives, suffering lives — are disposable that a daughter murdering her mother gets chalked up as a family tragedy rather than what it actually is: premeditated murder.
Florida prosecutors are seeking first-degree murder charges with all the weight that carries.
Good.
Because no matter how many times activists rebrand it, no matter how many sympathetic stories they tell, no matter what euphemisms they use, killing is still killing.
And Martha Jo Blake didn't show her mother dignity in death.
She showed her a pillow, or socks, or whatever she used to suffocate a 97-year-old woman who trusted her.
¹ Terri Parker, "Palm Beach woman accused of strangling mother after discussing 'death with dignity,'" WPBF, December 29, 2025.
² Ibid.
³ Ibid.
⁴ Jamie Frevele, "Daughter says she strangled 97-year-old mother to death so she could die 'with dignity,' police say," Law & Crime, December 29, 2025.
⁵ Chris Haring, "Florida murder case precedes debate over Death with Dignity law," Death with Dignity, January 31, 2024.
⁶ Julius Whigham II, "Daughter facing murder charge in death of ailing mom, 97, near Greenacres," Palm Beach Post, December 30, 2025.
⁷ Caitlin McCormack, "Daughter allegedly kills Parkinson's-stricken mom after she was denied medically assisted suicide: cops," New York Post, December 29, 2025.
⁸ Ibid.
⁹ "The Current Status of Death with Dignity in Florida," Death with Dignity, November 24, 2025.
¹⁰ Florida Statute 782.08.
¹¹ "Death With Dignity in Florida," Nolo, August 29, 2025.
¹² Chris Haring, "Florida murder case precedes debate over Death with Dignity law," Death with Dignity, January 31, 2024.
¹³ Ibid.
¹⁴ Terri Parker, "Palm Beach woman accused of strangling mother after discussing 'death with dignity,'" WPBF, December 29, 2025.
¹⁵ Ibid.
